The Theory .

“If you accept the expectations of others, especially negative ones, then you never will change the outcome. ”

Thinking, results in some awful results as well as some great results.
Pondering over my old experiences and the recent happenings i came out with a theory.

~FUTILITY OF EXPECTATIONS~

I believe that expecting things from any one, any thing, any time, any how and any place is really a waste of time, effort and energy. Expectations are something that keep a person's brain occupied and later the result hurt you or make you happy for a short while or doesn't even matter. You all might have thought over the postulates of this theory but i kinda gathered them.
The postulates are

• - Just dont expect anything from anyone as expectations make you think and think without any reason, wasting your time and energy.Why should a person waste time in thinking over things that are not happening or have not happened. All of us are familiar with the lines 

Past is a history,
Future being a mystery.
Enjoy life, because,
Present is a gift.

• - Expectations can be another form of killing the mystery of whats present in the future.

• -Expectations ruin your surprise element.

 For example, if you are expecting good marks in exam and you think about how much you will get and how much you should get, you are expecting. When the result comes out, and you score good marks, thats it, you are not happy because you already expected such marks. There was no fun and no surprise because u just got what in your brain u wanted..
Another example, if you like someone and like talking and spending time with that person, then, when you are idle and pondering over, you expect spending some quality time with that person. You expect talking to that person and you fantasize things. When you finally meet the person, time is spent and talking is done as expected. no fun and no surprises at all.

• -Expectations always, consistently and invariably HURT you.

For example, if you are expecting good marks in exam and you think about how much you will get and how much you should get, you are expecting. When the result comes out, and you score very low marks or you dont get what you expected, you are broken. You are hurt. You feel sad and terrible about not getting what you planned.
Another example, if you like someone and like talking and spending time with that person, then, when you are idle and pondering over, you expect spending some quality time with that person. You expect talking to that person and you fantasize things. When you meet the person and time passes by and you realize that the conversation is not up to your expectations. Things dont happen according to what you thought. You are irritated because the person is not doing what you expected. Your feelings get hurt. You all are familiar with the consequences.

• -Expectations are futile, they may never make you happy but they can doubtlessly make you sad. 

Why should a person do something in which his time and energy is wasted. ?!

• -Expecting things from people is even worse. You have no idea what a person is upto and whats going on in his/her brain but still you fantasize the actions or the next doing of that person. Thats so useless.

The above 6 postulates clearly conclude the reasons why one should not expect stuff to happen.
And hence, we get the result for Futility of Expectations.

The source of this hardcore thinking are some conversations with my immediate friends Jaskaran Singh (laala), Mannila Sandhu (shin chan), Abhijit Sngh (senti) and Surbhi Saini(subbo or paplu)
You guys have tried allot to make me stop expecting, but sorry, this aint happening .

PS. I feel like Einstein after proposing such theory. Also, its a hypothisus. Your views and experiences matter to make it an official THEORY.