Expectations...!!!

A man begins to die when he ceases to expect anything from anyone or from himself.|

I care for people allot. I feel attached to my friends too much. I want to always hear from them. I think too much for that matter of fact.
This characteristic comes to me from my dad. He too is too much over concerned about me.
This characteristic rocks actually. I am satisfied that my friends are ok.
 But the catch point is

DO OTHERS KNOW THAT YOU CARE FOR THEM SOO MUCH ??
Do they know your worth ?
Do they return the same ?
Do they love you as much as you do ?
DO THEY KNOW THAT YOU EXPECT SOMETHING FROM THEM  ??

Expectations. LOL.

They plague your daily life, causing you to be irritable, disappointed, and disillusioned. Many times they lead you to say unkind words, act unskillfully, or make poor decisions. Expectations turn up in many forms - from what we expect of ourselves to what others expect of us and we of them. You may have high, low, or even negative expectations. You also have large expectations and thousands of small expectations that arise in your life every day. Your large expectations have their own unique expression but are the result of the common strivings every human undergoes. As you learn to free yourself from these larger expectations, you can start to notice the smaller ones and not allow them to define your daily experience. You may expect that certain efforts will yield desired results, or believe you can be in control of your life, or be totally convinced that the so-called good life must have particular components.

Well, the answers to the above questions is undetermined. The truth is that people dont even bother about you. Its just your fantasy that makes you think that if you care for people people will do the same damn thing for you too. Its just a fantasy.
Ingratitude is the best proof that makes you realize that you are fantasizing and not nurturing the truth.

Its not that i want to involve myself to other peoples' lives, its just that i follow the policy that says that criticism is the best way to success. If no one will point out the flaws and the wrong actions of a person, then how will that person understand about the consequences ?.!!
I am not a sneak peek in others lives, instead i want everyone to be close to being an awesome person..
I have people around me that do understand what i try to do and what i think. Their brain frequencies luckily match with mine.
And some of my friends just dont get it. They get offended easily with anything i say. I am tired of clarifications so please dont expect any more from my side.

Just same courtesy is expected back from friends but it seldom happens.
Just an appreciation and an informal quote of gratitude is expected and that seldom happens.
Just giving a reaction and responding is expected and some people give zero.
Just the removal of insecurity is expected and some do but others dont.
Just a grudge removal discussion (GRD ) is expected and people dont spit things out and keep some differences.
Just tolerating the flaws of each others is expected and people get offended by a slightest comment passed.
Just a commitment of long term friendship is expected and i get it from most of them.
Just a sense of mutual trust is expected and this is rarely received.

Thus, when i expect things from people, i dont expect a materialistic projection, i expect that they should not feel that i am intruding or that i suck or that i criticize or may be that i think i am the best.

P.S. I just cant stop what I do. I cannot change my nature for anyone so easily. So no use of explaining me not to expect. I just cannot 'can not expect'.