JUDGED .!

We girls face a risk. NO, i'm not here to talk about the recent rape cases ( I have nothing new to say. Everything has already been said.). I'm here to talk about the risk of being constantly judged on the basis of stereotypes. Every girl in her teens and well, beyond, is judged every single second of being in a public place. This is what he appearance suggests (according to lame and judgmental weirdos ) when she walks through a door.

• Pretty ,very well dressed, not smiling :  Fashion conscious. Dumb. Aware of her beauty and rude.
• Pretty, very well dressed, smiling at everyone : Fashion conscious. Dumb. Flirtatious. Single.
• Pretty, wearing a skirt/ shorts : bimbo. slutty.
• Pretty, badly dressed : No fashion sense. Average in everything.
• Not too pretty, very well dressed : Trying to compensate. Attention seeker.
• Not to pretty, normally dressed : Nerd. "I don't care".

WHY? Why does this happen? Do the looks say it all? Its not only the boys, but the girls too judge other girls. If a girl has a lot of male friends, "Eww. Such a slut." And if she doesn't talk to boys, "That girl sooo needs to get over herself!".  What I don't understand, is how can you judge someone when you don't even know them! No, I need an answer. Does every good looking girl have to be dumb? BLONDES! Okay, lets not talk about blondes. :p But seriously guys! Whats with these cliches? 

Just tell me a few characteristics that a girl should have to fall in the category of simple, not-dumb and decent. Should she be good looking or not? Make male friends or not? Wear branded clothes or not? Smile at you or not? WHAT do you want?! I see no fault in wearing pretty clothes in order to look nice! And what the hell could be wrong in making new friends? And I personally don't talk to a lot of people! Just for the record,  I am not full of myself. See, I broke your cliche. And trust me, every girl that you know breaks one. She is way too different from what you think she is. So grow up! Stop finding a trait in every single action and mind your own business.

#TiredOfBeingJudged